Stephen is my cousin. So there's that. We connected for this when my uncle sat the phone down on Thanksgiving and let the cousins talk to Stephen since he was in Hawaii and couldn't make it to our family gathering. One of the first things he said was, "One of ya'll come see me." So I did. While I was there, I crashed at his house in Waikiki for a couple nights, drove him around to all the cool spots he knew of, and went scuba diving with him.